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Tone & Mood Matrix Builder

Build a tone of voice matrix: map your personality on four sliders, lock your adjective lists, and set how your AI brand voice flexes across moods.

Your Voice Charter says who you are. The Tone & Mood Matrix says how that shows up in an actual sentence, and how it flexes when the situation changes. A brand that sounds identical on launch day and in an apology email has a template, not a voice. This is the deliverable behind the Affinity pillar.

Build this once, then paste the finished matrix into your AI prompts alongside your charter.

Part 1: Personality sliders (5 minutes)

Mark where your brand sits on each slider, 1 to 10. Do not park everything at 5. A voice with no strong positions is beige.

Slider 1 10 Your score
Bold vs. Reserved Reserved: understated, lets work speak Bold: strong claims, takes positions ___
Casual vs. Professional Casual: contractions, slang, jokes Professional: precise, formal, measured ___
Warm vs. Direct Warm: leads with empathy, softens edges Direct: leads with the point, trims padding ___
Playful vs. Polished Playful: wordplay, surprises, personality first Polished: clean, consistent, craft first ___

Then write one sentence explaining your most extreme score. Example: "We're an 8 on Bold because our clients hire us to have opinions they can't say internally."

Part 2: Adjective lists (10 minutes)

Approved adjectives (pick 5 to 7). These describe how your content should feel. Circle from this starter list or add your own:

confident, plainspoken, curious, generous, wry, calm, punchy, precise, encouraging, blunt, sunny, grounded, sharp, unhurried, practical

Banned adjectives (pick 5 to 7). These are feelings your content must never give off, even by accident:

salesy, breathless, corporate, preachy, cutesy, vague, apologetic, hype-y, robotic, smug, desperate, generic

My approved list: _______, _______, _______, _______, _______

My banned list: _______, _______, _______, _______, _______

The banned list matters more than you think. When AI output feels off, it is almost always because it landed on a banned feeling, not because it missed an approved one.

Part 3: Sample phrase pairs (10 minutes)

Write three pairs showing the same idea on-voice and off-voice. These teach AI faster than any adjective list. Example set for a direct, warm SaaS brand:

Situation Off-voice On-voice
Announcing a feature "We're thrilled to unveil our revolutionary new dashboard experience!" "New dashboard. Your reports now load in one click instead of four."
Pricing objection "We understand budget constraints can be challenging in today's environment." "Fair question. Here's exactly what the $49 covers, line by line."
Saying no "Unfortunately, at this time we are unable to accommodate that request." "We can't do that one, and here's why. What we can do instead:"

Now write yours:

Situation Off-voice On-voice
_____________ _____________ _____________
_____________ _____________ _____________
_____________ _____________ _____________

Part 4: Per-mood adjustments (5 minutes)

Your sliders are your resting position. Moods shift them temporarily. Fill in the shift column for each situation:

Mood What shifts Example rule
Launch day Bold +2, Playful +1 "Shorter sentences. One confident claim per paragraph. Excitement through pace, not exclamation points."
Apology or outage Direct +2, Playful drops to 1 "Lead with what happened and what we're doing. No jokes, no softening, no 'we take this seriously.'"
Support reply Warm +2 "Acknowledge the frustration in one line, then get them to the fix fast."
Sales page Bold +1, keep Warm steady "Concrete outcomes, named prices, no pressure phrases."
Bad news (price increase, sunset) Direct +1, Warm +1 "Say the change in the first sentence. Explain the why in plain terms. Give a date and a next step."

Your rules:

  • Launch day: _________________________________
  • Apology: _________________________________
  • Support: _________________________________
  • Sales: _________________________________
  • Bad news: _________________________________

Assemble the matrix

Copy this block, fill it in, and save it where your team and your AI prompts can reach it:

Tone & Mood Matrix for [brand] Sliders: Bold [x]/10, Casual [x]/10, Warm [x]/10, Playful [x]/10 Sounds like: [approved adjectives] Never sounds: [banned adjectives] Phrase pairs: [paste your three pairs] Mood shifts: [paste your five rules]

Paste it under your Voice Charter in any prompt and ask the AI to name which mood applies before it writes. That one instruction does more for consistency than a page of guidelines.

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